what do we worship for?????????????????

We are the creations of god, that is what we all know. It becomes our duty to be thankful for that but instead of being thankful we think only about ourselves. Well I had mentioned it earlier only that we are the most selfish breed that's why we even forget our creators. We rarely take the name of gods in our daily life but aas soon as we are about to face trouble we remember him, what do we call it then. Is it love for him or our mere selfishness? We are not fortunate enough to see gods that's why we have our parents. Our parents are not less than gods but the same thing is happening to them also, when we need them they are always with us but when they need us, are we with them? The whole scenario is transparent, we all know what is going around us.  

When do u know that you have actually become mature?

Is it when you start talking on grave topics or when you start talking about normal topics seriously? You are actually ignorant about the changes happening withing your own self , when we will get to know about those changes then only we will be able to know about our maturity. We can be mature at a very small age or we can never be mature. We have to change ourselves with time and keep on discovering ourselves then only we be what we want to be.

when some things can't be tolerated just don't give a damn to those things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sometimes you have to face such situations in which you just can't digest the way people are behaving with you and this feeling becomes stronger when you know that you actually had no fault. In such situations you should first try to turn things into normal by talking with the person concerned or by trying to compromise but when none of the measures work there is only one option left that is to move on, the best example is when your room mates are unable to understand you, no matter how hard you try, just change the room.

think little or do more or do less or think more !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i think more that is why i m able to do less, i am not ashamed to accept this truth. Not doing anything and not wanting to do anything are two different things, many people don't want to do anything and blame it on the situations they faced and lamely say that the situations were such that they could not do anything. We should be fast thinkers so that we can think for less amount of time and do more work, you can't stop thinking completely rather you can increase your efficiency of thinking and waste less time on any monotonous topic.

Hiding yourself is the biggest mistake you will ever make !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Life rarely gives you a second chance and today luck is the costliest thing. You should never miss an opportunity to show your potential when situation calls for it, rather you should search for situations but never try to over do it otherwise people may turn against you. If you don't reveal yourself at the right time then you will not do anything rest of the life but regret for what you had done. The time you will decide to reveal your own self the more you will get to know about yourself, knowing one's own self is the greatest thing one can ever do.   

When you have got nothing to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you have got nothing to do just look into you, look at your own reflection in a mirror and ask yourself, are you really the person who you think you are or you are just having a disguise. No one else will be able to give you the answer, you will have to find an answer yourself and satisfy your own self and if you are not satisfied then you have to continue the search. It might be a short process if luck is on your side otherwise it might be the longest process. You can't give up, it will be a journey to self discovery..................... 

Sometimes u have got nothing to do ............................

Sometimes rather most of the times you feel like you have got nothing to do when at the very same time you could to do something very productive but you are unable to bring out the potential that you have. When you have got nothing to do many questions rise in your mind like : "What am i doing with my life?,What should i do with it? Why should i do anything?", well the answers are simple. you better find out

Enough is enough !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is something that you say when you don't want to give a damn to whatever is going on anymore and its like you are being stabbed again and again and then being apologized by the person who does that. It is when you have seen enough and had enough but you are unable to find a remedy, when you are trying to make everything alright things turn out to be even worse and at that time you feel as if giving up is a better option than to just hang on.....................................

Change is the only thing that is permanent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When everything goes on with the flow in your life there is always a feeling of insecurity in your mind that this is not going to last for long. The most powerful abstract noun in this universe is time and the other noun that comes second is change. If you are able to cope with the changes around you then you will come out to be a survivor not even a winner because there are many in this world who can cope but only a few come out to be winners. You can't flatter change rather change will flatter you and snatch everything from you and you will be ignorant about that.

When emotions burst out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We humans are unique not because we have higher level of IQ but it is because we have got a variety of emotions but the media required to convey the message out of those emotions are limited, either we can speak out and share our emotions or we can be silent or we can cry out. Sometimes rather most of the times we fall short of media and are unable to express ourselves, so we slowly begin to gather loads of emotions and finally when you are unable to bear the load of the emotions and all the pain that you have you burst open and cry out loud. You cry out loud and say "why me, why always me?", at that time all you need is somebody to hear whatever you have to say.

Don't lose your ownself for someone else !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is in the humans and more in the boys to compromise, compromising is not bad but too much of anything is not at all good. Today any form of relation is nothing but a big compromise. How do we define compromise? Compromise is nothing but tolerating whatever is happening in front of you or changing yourself for someone or somebody. If you are changing yourself for someone special then you are making the biggest mistake of your life because if you can be certain about someone then it is no one but you.  

You will get the least importance if you give the maximum importance to someone

If you are somebody who likes to give importance to someone and dedicate all your time on only one person then you might want to rethink about that. The moment you start doing that you are slowly getting entrapped in the chains of emotions and if you are not aware of what you are getting into you will be completely trapped. The moment you will realise that you are trapped it will be too late. Well the toughest part here is to know whether you are really trapped or not. That can be found out by the behaviour of the person concerned, if the person does the same thing again and again that is not liked by you then it can be a pretty good signal that everything is not alright. All we need to do is be transparent and be straight. It is not always true that if you start questioning you will end up loosing that person, solutions are always available and they do not cost anything but time.

What do we actually want???????????????????

We are slaves of our own routine and we can never end that slavery. We decide our own fate although we are unaware about what we are actually doing. The ultimate goal is to remain happy in life and i don't think that anyone will disagree, well the manner of being happy can be different. Someone becomes happy by making someone else happy while someone becomes happy by helping someone, someone can become happy even by hurting someone. Well the ways don't actually matter to the individuals, all they want is to be happy. You can't stop someone from being happy, if the procedure is wrong then it is your utmost duty to try to mend that. We can be our own teachers and our own mentors, all we need to be is become rational and then it will be so easy to find out what we want.

Friends or Foes

How do you define friends and foes or how do you differentiate between friends and foes? It is most obvious that you will say that those who help you at the time of your need are your friends while those who don't they are your foes, if it could be that very simple then you would easily list out your friends and foes and your best friends and best foes. Ironically it is not so very simple that is why when someone asks you who is your best friend you get a little bit confused and are unable to answer instantly. You are actually not sure whether your friend will remain your friend forever rather your friend thinks about you the same way as you think about him. There is a term which we all are familiar with that is "true" and when it is added to the words friends and foes the importance of the word "true" increases a lot. Have you ever come across true friends or true foes?

Well I wont call myself a critic or a judge of the human behaviour but it is not wrong to oppose what is wrong according to you. You have the right to express yourself so why not use that right for some purpose. To survive in this world you really don't need anyone to be with you, we make ourselves weak by being with someone. We prefer to be weak when at the very same time we can be the strongest.

Right from the grass-root level...............................The phrase "A friend in need is a friend indeed" itself shows how selfish human beings can be. Well if someone does not help you does not mean that he is not your friend, just because he does not help you, you can't stop helping others. You ought to be like your ownself.

Human beings are the most treacherous form of living orgamisms, they are the most unpredictable and the hypocrite form of beings.