You will get the least importance if you give the maximum importance to someone

If you are somebody who likes to give importance to someone and dedicate all your time on only one person then you might want to rethink about that. The moment you start doing that you are slowly getting entrapped in the chains of emotions and if you are not aware of what you are getting into you will be completely trapped. The moment you will realise that you are trapped it will be too late. Well the toughest part here is to know whether you are really trapped or not. That can be found out by the behaviour of the person concerned, if the person does the same thing again and again that is not liked by you then it can be a pretty good signal that everything is not alright. All we need to do is be transparent and be straight. It is not always true that if you start questioning you will end up loosing that person, solutions are always available and they do not cost anything but time.

What do we actually want???????????????????

We are slaves of our own routine and we can never end that slavery. We decide our own fate although we are unaware about what we are actually doing. The ultimate goal is to remain happy in life and i don't think that anyone will disagree, well the manner of being happy can be different. Someone becomes happy by making someone else happy while someone becomes happy by helping someone, someone can become happy even by hurting someone. Well the ways don't actually matter to the individuals, all they want is to be happy. You can't stop someone from being happy, if the procedure is wrong then it is your utmost duty to try to mend that. We can be our own teachers and our own mentors, all we need to be is become rational and then it will be so easy to find out what we want.

Friends or Foes

How do you define friends and foes or how do you differentiate between friends and foes? It is most obvious that you will say that those who help you at the time of your need are your friends while those who don't they are your foes, if it could be that very simple then you would easily list out your friends and foes and your best friends and best foes. Ironically it is not so very simple that is why when someone asks you who is your best friend you get a little bit confused and are unable to answer instantly. You are actually not sure whether your friend will remain your friend forever rather your friend thinks about you the same way as you think about him. There is a term which we all are familiar with that is "true" and when it is added to the words friends and foes the importance of the word "true" increases a lot. Have you ever come across true friends or true foes?

Well I wont call myself a critic or a judge of the human behaviour but it is not wrong to oppose what is wrong according to you. You have the right to express yourself so why not use that right for some purpose. To survive in this world you really don't need anyone to be with you, we make ourselves weak by being with someone. We prefer to be weak when at the very same time we can be the strongest.

Right from the grass-root level...............................The phrase "A friend in need is a friend indeed" itself shows how selfish human beings can be. Well if someone does not help you does not mean that he is not your friend, just because he does not help you, you can't stop helping others. You ought to be like your ownself.

Human beings are the most treacherous form of living orgamisms, they are the most unpredictable and the hypocrite form of beings.