Decide or Suicide ! ! !

Decision making is the toughest job for a man as a human brain specially a man's brain is surrounded with thoughts which can make anybody unstable be it anyone but a man. A normal human brain has to go through loads of stresses which can not be measured neither digitally nor by any analog instrument. This situation of decision making being a tough job will never change but one thing can surely be done to change this and that is to be firm on any kind of decision.

Time has come when we have to make firm decisions about our life, as the high time will soon be over and at that time you will be left with no other option but to suicide.

If this time is also lost then, we will reach such a phase in which we will not even have the luck to happily give up and run, I am not telling or encouraging anyone to give up or die but the scenario around us is so much similar to what I can see makes me feel that giving up or dying would be a better option.

 

Should we trust our eyes more than our ears ?

Most often we come across situations in which we prefer to believe what we see rather than what we listen to. At times when rumors are spread, we don't bother to pay full attention to what the rumors actually mean as we are not ready to believe them completely rather we are not ready to believe our ears but at the same time if the same rumor is visible and is seen by us then the degree of trust will increase to a great extent.

For instance if something is happening in-front of you but is inaudible, your conscience will narrate the event to you and if someone else will try to narrate that to you, you will prefer not to believe him as you trust your eyes and conscience more than your ears and anyone or anything else.

Ironically your eyes are also not always correct, as what is visible to the naked eye is not actually happening.

Now, what would you prefer to be, blind or deaf, or remain both even if you have those senses up-to the mark.

   

Finding God ! ! !

If not everyone but most of us want to know God, knowing God is just a way to find peace and happiness but is it necessary to go to a special place to find God, special place like temple, mosque, church or gurudwara. You will never find God over there, you will only find hypocrites, you will find people who pose to be messengers of God but are they really what they pose to be, no one knows that, neither do they. 

You can only find God when you are looking inside your soul and are free from any kind of desire and expectation and once you are free from any kind of attachments you will come across God.

People who claim to be messengers are businessmen, and they have used our faith for their business. I will quote something from the movie, Oh MY God, "WE ARE NOT GOD LOVING PEOPLE, WE ARE GOD FEARING PEOPLE". Those people are using our fear against us and that is doing good for their business.

Endless Discussions ! ! !

Being human beings, we have both good and bad in ourselves and if we would have taken the responsibility to discuss and criticize about the endless negatives of a person then the discussion would have never ended and that  would result in the biggest discussion of this universe. If one starts discussing about the positives of a person then that would hardly take not more than two minutes and some would even love to quote,"no comments".

People don't have time to talk good about people, they just love to criticize people as if they have been licensed to do so since birth.

The first thing one should know is that he himself is not perfect and if that thing is properly understood by him then he will not dare to get into any kind of negative discussion about anyone else.

We are shameless ! ! !

Most often we commit the same mistakes and say sorry to others but do we really feel sorry or guilty for the mistakes that we have committed, no. We are never sorry and we will never be as there is one and only one solution to all our mistakes, a word called sorry. The word 'sorry' has made survival easy for most of the people, after saying sorry one forgets his mistakes and doesn't even have time to rectify himself, all he knows is that he has got a word to rescue him.

This sense of security makes us shameless and we are never ready to actually rectify ourselves and we don't even want to listen to someone who is actually correct and ready to help. We have reached the limit of being shameless and we have not yet realized it.

 

Is it necessary to have a dialect ?

When you are having a mother tongue or a national language or a language in which you are comfortable at, is it necessary to have a dialect? I don't understand why people try so hard to become like someone else, when they can be the best when they are like their own self. People, just to prove that they belong to the same brotherhood, start speaking the same language rather dialect, but they don't realize that they have been loosing the originality in them as soon as they try hard to become like the others. Moreover if you wish to follow someone you can do that, even you can get inspired by someone but it is not at all necessary to always form a trade mark for a profession or a course. For instance, engineering graduates in West Bengal use such a language which easily indicates that they are from engineering back-ground. This is not at-all against the engineers of West Bengal or any other state or country, rather it has got nothing to do with engineers or doctors but it is against this fashion, this trend.   

Limitless is the height of success ! ! !

Can anyone ever say that one has reached the top of the ladder of success? The answer will surely be no and will always be a no. This is not only my opinion but the opinion of millions around us, as everyone is hungry for this food called success and thirsty for success and thirst can never be quenched. The more successful a person becomes, the more he involves himself into a competition and this competition is never ending as he is the one chasing himself and defeating himself again and again. This hunger is very much necessary for a person to be successful, as that hunger becomes the fuel for the engine of life and helps to continue the never ending journey.

Is there anything called perfect ! ! !

Is there anything called a perfect start? Is there anything perfect at all? Well for you something might be perfect but for some one else the same thing will be the other way round. To start something you can't wait for a proper beginning rather you have to make any beginning equivalent to perfect and carry on with the job.

If perfection was supposed to be the first step of the ladder then nobody would reach the top of it rather nobody would want to reach the top of the ladder.

Perfection can't be achieved at a blink of an eye rather one has to work hard to achieve it and what if one is not perfect, it is not mandatory at all that everyone has to be perfect in this breathing earth. You can survive without being perfect but coveting to become perfect is not bad too.

   

Thinking out of the box ! ! !

Everyone has got an opinion of their own and a method of thinking but a time comes when all the thinking and opinion runs on the same track, that is the time when one has to decide what to do for a living. Almost everyone starts and ends up on the same view, a government job and making loads of savings and if possible a trip every year, but is that the life you had been dreaming all your life, a mundane life and nothing else.

That is the time when you have to think out of the box, not because you are not getting a job but because you don't want to do it. You have to decide whether you want to lead a life different from others or follow the same life-style as others'. 

Now, who will take care of your parents? You will only take care of your parents but not by leading a mundane life, but by doing something you love to do and when you are happy, you will make your parents happy too. 

This is something which I had written earlier also but in a different manner. This is something that concerns you and your family and not anyone else.

 

We are entrapped ! ! !

Since the day we were born, we had been put inside a large chakravyu (as in MAHAVARATA), and we had never been taught how to get out of it. Our life
metaphorically symbolizes chaos and confusion. We are tied to many endless knots which are actually invisible to the naked eye, those can only be seen by the eyes of conscience. Sometimes we are tied with the knot of love and sometimes with money. Desire is the thread that creates the knots. You can not get hold of desire, as if you would do that then you would have reached the ultimate goal of anybody's life. Reaching the ultimate goal is not impossible but that amount of patience is lacking in anybody. We have been literally entrapped in the web of desire. 

Journey begins now ! ! !

So far I was searching for nothing but now I have got a goal to fulfill, a dream to make true and an aim to conquer and that is to find myself. If you are able to find your own-self out of all the odds, that would be something which you have accomplished so far. The moment you decide to find yourself, you have marked the beginning of your journey and that is going to be the ultimate journey. I too was ignorant about this but as I started reading "Siddhartha", I discovered something and that was really awesome, if you will find the real you or even if you are on that path then you don't need to find anything else in this world. The relief that you will experience will be something that you had never ever come across. Peace will be in abundance and you would be surrounded by serenity and calmness. 

 

Being mundane and getting out of it ! ! !

There comes a time in everybody's life when everything seems boring and mundane, joy resembles the last drop of water in the midst of a desert and you become a lost traveler. You find it the toughest of the chores to find a way out and just when you are almost about to give up, a second thought should be born and that should be the silver lining. If MUNDANE is all that is left with you and it is what you think everything will be around you, then better make it your attitude, be boring and be proud of it. Let everything be mundane and boring and when your mind will get saturated with that feeling then you will finally get out of it and you will find a way out. As you will find a way out you will realize that mundane and boring was a better you.

Help you help everyone else !

This world has grown into a parasitic place and people are turning out to be unbelievably selfish most of the times. Parasite is something that depends on something else for survival and does not give anything in return. Well if we think deeply then we are no less than parasites, we are there only for our needs and once it is over, we just vanish. It was always supposed to be a give and take but now it has only been take and take, the concept of giving has become extinct. Slowly this world s becoming a small place to live in where people think only about themselves. Now many people will say that how can one put everyone under the same category, well no one can deny this fact neither can anyone say that he has never done anything that would not resemble selfishness.   

Helping the needy !

Do you want to do something for the society and its development and help others? Then you are free to do it and you don't need anybody's permission before doing that ideal job. On your way of doing what you feel like, you will get many people and of many types. Optimism is one such ism which you will have to have in plenty as you will be surrounded by pessimists. Many will suggest you to take the help of someone powerful, but do you really think that one who will not understand your intention will be able to help you.

Neither you need anybody's permission nor anybody's support to help others, the only thing that you have to be is a person of will and should be able enough to invest yourself without taking the help of others. If anyone is willingly wanting to help you, you must not stop them as they too have the same intention and they are not doing any favor, they are just using you as a medium to help others.