Humans please!

This might seem to be a notice or an eye opener or simply a request to the most intelligent living beings that is the human beings to open their eyes now as it is high time. People have forgotten about something called conscience which they very much have but are not ready to use it.
People are getting confused, have lost their rationality and are suddenly getting bewildered with the events which are happening in and around the world but are not ready to take any kind of measures. The best thing which we are doing now is posting status and changing the display pictures, is it really creating any difference? I don't think so. " A pen is mightier than a sword, " this is what motivated me to write today and I know that this is not going to create any difference as well.
We should now question the political leaders, the so called super powers and all the remaining powers, whose powers seem to be exaggerated to a great extent now, about what are they waiting for, are they waiting for a few more deaths? Few speeches and harsh words by great leaders will not kill the sinners, harsh actions will do.
The terrorists are outcasts, they don't represent any religion nor do they fall under the biological or scientific name homo sapiens, they are animals, animals which feed on their own breed, you can call them cannibals as well if they are humans but they believe in killing, butchers would be better. Terrorists who are driven by adrenaline rush should not be the reason of communal riots in the world, they are not a part of any religion and if they are they should not be.
Human beings please get united, unity has got a lot of strength.

Going back to the womb!

Is it really possible to go back to the womb? Well practically it is not but virtually it is.
Durga Pujo, it meant something else in the beginning, it is after coming to  Kolkata and staying here that it all changed. Kolkata, a partially busy metropolitan and a considerably crowded place turned out to be a completely different place altogether during the Durga Pujo. It was as if lakhs of people have come out of the womb of mother Kolkata and there is no one to control the birth rate. Fully grown adults and kids and what not took birth during those five or six days.
One will get the idea of the population boom in Kolkata only during the Durga Pujo, and Kolkata becomes the Mother Mary who gets blessed with so many children every year during the Durga Pujo. Kolkata opens the gates of the womb and the children don't need the help of the doctors to be pulled out of the sacred place.
When you move out on the roads you suddenly realise that you have been blessed with so many brothers and sisters that you can only see their heads on the roads, sometimes it becomes tough for you to walk around. Roads at those times are devoid of vehicles, only human engines emit carbon dioxide on all five days.
This festival brings rather gives life to the metropolitan and gives an opportunity to Kolkata to become a Mother once again and give birth to so many people who care for the place, who turn out to love this place more than their work.
The sad part is, five days pass without giving any application to Mother Kolkata and by the time Mother realises it all the children get back to the womb, as in they vanish. The streets become comparatively empty and you fail to see only heads. All you can see is thousands of vehicles which have only one thing to give and that is pollution. You start seeing all those faces again who are enchained to the same enslaving jobs, they start following their routine and forget about Mother Kolkata. Mother becomes a mere place to stay again, a place which gives them food and shelter and a means to work.

Cover is just a disguise !

The phrase, "one can not judge a book by it's cover," will always be true and it is not only applicable to books and novels, it applies to a human being as well. One can never read faces and tell everything about a particular being be it a human or any other being. A person should be naive enough to express himself  or herself on the very first day, knowing someone and letting the conscience do the task of making perceptions requires time and change also depends on time; by the time you would be sure enough that you have known someone that person might have changed but the outlook would have remained the same, isn't it? This is the only role of the cover, which acts as a disguise. A smile, a drop of tear,a grin is all it takes to create a cover,

One day you land up on a completely unknown place where all you can see is unknown people and you don't have an idea of what to do. You reach your workplace and you find someone who turns out to be a good friend of your's, without paying much heed you too get carried away. Wouldn't you ask a question to yourself," how can someone be so friendly with me without even knowing me?" As I always mention, change is the only thing permanent and time is it's fuel, as time passed you too enjoy the company of that person and you forget to use your conscience. After few days you realize that you were just a pawn and you didn't even allow your conscience to read the book, you just went by the cover. once it used to be.'bhai- bhai' and now it was,'bye-bye'. That is the time when you realize that you had committed a very big mistake only by going by the cover as it did not take more than a month to change from, "bhai- bhai to bye-bye".   

Corporate mirage !

 

Everyone covets to be a part of the corporate world, some people even think that they have been destined for that. The word corporate sounds so cool and prestigious but once you get an opportunity to experience that life you get the true taste. Everything in this world has got two sides, the brighter side of the corporate world is that you get to know and understand people, you develop the ability to judge people and start abstaining from the practice of believing in fairy tales.

Why is the corporate world a mirage? It looks like the most beautiful thing in the world and something which you desire but the closer you get to it the harsher it gets, slowly you realize that you have been ignorant all this while and when you realize that, it gets too late. 

By the time you realize how late it is, your thirst increases and you are entrapped. Every human that you find in that world is like a tree, which is just a part of the mirage. Once you will be inside that world, there will be temptations to stop you and once you become the part of that miragical society you will no longer want to get out of it. 

Desire for anything ignites the fire within you to do anything, but be careful before you desire for something. Many people will treat this article as an ironical shit, but the truth is, there is always some truth in any kind of a story.

Script!

What do you understand by a script? Script is a routine, which you can afford to unfollow but you don't. Is life based on a script? No, life is the most unpredictable form of a story which can never be based upon a single script. You can turn various phases of life into scripts but a single script will never be able to define your life.
Can you go ahead and declare that you have got the script your life? Impossible! And you can not break or syllablize this impossible in a smart manner. Somethings are meant to be impossible and no fortune teller has got the ability to hand you the script otherwise the fun and the adventure is over. Life is an adventure, it is not supposed to be a boring script. Well scripts are not always boring, a script for a three hour movie can be fine, but can you be all ears to a script of an odd sixty or seventy years.

Prejudice!

The only reason behind all the problems in this universe is prejudice. Either people know a thing or not they will always keep a pre assumed thought, that is what is prejudice, they will pre-judge everything.
You can never judge a book by its cover, but people will never understand it, they will always try to judge you or anything by the outlook. Prejudice does not make things easier, it gives birth to difficulties. Sometimes the difficulties are so complex that you are unable to find a way out.
Prejudice should be kicked out of the society as soon as possible otherwise people will stop using their rationality and will victimize this world with prejudice. Whole world will turn blind.

Right place - wrong time !

There are times when you seem to be at the right place but the time does not seem to be on your side, at that moment either you stop caring about the time or you lose the place or the spot. You must be very lucky in order to be at the right place and that too at the right time.

Only hard working people used to reach that place, but that used to consume a lot of time. Today people prefer to work smart and that saves them a lot of time as well.

It is all about time, time can not be classified as good or bad, time is constantly changing. It would be knaive to classify time, people who have coordinated with the pace of time have climbed the ladders of success others are just busy cursing time.

Uncertainty !

Along with change uncertainty is something which is permanent. Even after everything being well and good you can never be certain about the existence of that good time for a long time. You are always hoping for something good to happen and you want that to be permanent, but reality is too difficult and different. Things won't last forever, that is the only fact you can be certain about. Foolish are those people who lead their lives believing that everything is good, but somewhere and somehow they are doing the right thing.
Being a part of this homo sapiens race you should keep in mind two most important things, that is change is the only thing permanent and nothing is certain.

Dedicated to the graduates and would be graduates !

"Time and tide wait for none," so why shall you waste it, pondering upon thoughts like settling up. Just because your father could not achieve success at the right time, or he could not become what he wanted, does not put you in a position to give up everything and put a guard beside your eyes and run behind money. You are not a race horse. There is no hurry.

One can't give up everything and become a workaholic at this tender age, isn't twenty four tender? I will not give up everything, you can call me selfish. I will not blame you for that. There is a lot to see and learn from those things. One can't devote twelve hours everyday just to earn 25k or whatever a company will provide at the end of the month. Twelve hours multiplied by the number of working days in a month is worth much more than what a firm would provide you, more over that time is priceless. Many witty people and the so called grey haired people will say, you can still enjoy life while you are working, frankly speaking they have completely mistaken to define 'enjoy', neither can a booze and a fag define the term 'enjoy', it all depends on you. You can't force your opinion on anyone. Likewise people don't have that right to force their opinion on you.

You were brought up very carefully, given a very proper education and now you are a graduate. Your parents have the right to expect. They have not wronged in expecting anything from you, it is a very minute thing compared to what have actually done for you and sacrificed for you. But if they could wait for 24 years, what is the harm in waiting for another couple of years. Let their kids think upon and judge what is good for them. Two years is not a big deal, it will pass on in a blink of an eye, but my dear friends and reader those 730 days will be the longest and the heaviest for you.

People need time to think upon, to ponder and to contemplate in order to start something new. What if someone has started something new and started very happily and then suddenly after few months he realizes that he had started off in a wrong foot and it was a completely hasty decision. Wont that put your parents also in a wrong position?

Time will not wait for you, but my friend keep in mind one thing that you might have odd fifty or sixty years in your account, so it is better to keep in mind how do you want to spend it. Whether you want to spend it cursing yourself in the later years about your mistakes or you want to enjoy it cherishing the lessons you had learnt from the mistakes. How ironical it is! You will never be right, some mistakes might bring you loads of fun, others might kill you from inside.

Reason !

Reason is something abstract without which we don't do anything. For our own existence we search for a reason, existence is too serious a matter. We even search a reason for a fight or a union, although there are people who fight without any reason.

"If you are good enough at finding reasons, you will easily stay away from prisons( real or virtual)", this quote might make you realize the importance of reasons.

This world is growing very costly day by day and if one is trying to find the reason,only one answer is heard, to meet the global demand for food and security prices are hiked, this can't be reason enough to push millions of people to their death bed almost in equal intervals.

An experience !

Met Durjoy Datta, a writer of that stature, for the first time in my life. You don't have to work hard to gain the lime light, you just have to do the work from the bottom of your heart, your work will do the talking. Haters will always keep on hating, some people will come and appreciate your work. 

A person who has reached somewhere, had someday started from zero. A zero has a great importance in life, just don't ignore or hate yourself being a zero, it will be an indication that your journey has begun. 

Readers !

You will get to know more about Pom and Susane later on. I will keep on posting about life and the odds of being odd. 

Life is like an empty vessel, either you fill it with expectations or loneliness. Both expectation and loneliness are harmful but you have to have either one of them. If you are with someone, it is very much obvious to have some expectations otherwise you will have to be lonely in order to stay away from expectations.

Chakravyu- unplugged

Pom's life has lost its pace, Pom says,"Life is like a flowing waterbody, once it becomes stagnant it becomes useless, either it dries up or the water gets infected.
He is unable to differentiate whether everything is getting back to normal or becoming worse. He remains busy with himself, always in a state of soliloquy. Adjectives like regular and punctual apply no more on Pom. He has now become the most ordinary person of that place and he does not even have a choice.
Few days ago, a so called fest was organized by his year mates in his college, but he was asked by no one to participate, that pissed him off. That was one hell of a day for him. Susane was looking gorgeous that day but he was not allowed to talk with her. He could only watch her. He was not stalking her, he had got the guts to go and have a chat with her but he did not as he had promised not to create anymore trouble for Susane.
Pom had agreed not to talk with her either in person or on phone, expecting not to cause any trouble for Susane, that was so very foolish and unselfish of him. Still his year mates do not believe that he loves her. He regrets not having said anything when he had the opportunity, only because he was afraid of the consequences that Susane had to face, he couldn't do anything.
That night on the day of the fest, he had lost control of himself and all his emotions had burst out, Pom was screaming and shouting only one thing," I hate everyone." A scene had been created, and he was just a clown. People were having fun at what they were watching. He did not care about what people said or did, Pom had always been that way, he hated hypocrisy.
Someone has to know Susane's part of the story as well, but it is not possible as she is surrounded with people who have faces infinite and it is next to impossible for Pom to know her condition now.
Life has become a gamble for Pom, which he knows he is not going to win but hope keeps him alive and provides him strength to breathe.
The series of events that had occurred has helped him a lot. He could now realize who his real friends were and could trace the hypocrites. Now he can easily differentiate between truth and a lie.
Days seem to be like months now, Pom is waiting for the end of the semester, until and unless the semester is over Pom will not be able to rejuvenate himself. Pom has been entrapped in a graveyard of depression, he needs to get out as soon as possible otherwise he will have to get inside a coffin too.

CHAKRAVYU

The girl asked him not to meet her anymore, she even refused to talk with him on phone, he was addicted to her voice, her face, her smile and everything else and one cannot stay away from an addiction for long. All the boys had conspired against him and had reported a lot of things to her boy-friend with added flavors. They had exaggerated it to such an extent that her boy-friend had to come and meet him. They had created such a scene that he was looked upon with disgust by everyone, as if loving someone was a crime. How could she leave him with such an ease?

The love story began several months ago, when the preparations for the fifth semester were going on. The girl and the boy had become friends after four semesters. The boy had always tried to befriend her, but was never successful. The girl, Susane, was good in studies while on the other hand the boy, Pom, loved everything else other than studies.

The best way to make a girl your friend is to make her your teacher. She used to show him the tricks to solve the sums which were very much probable to come in the exams. After all they were they were all pursuing engineering, they knew the tricks of studying before the exam. They couldn’t even relax and exams began, during each exam Pom would go and see Susane and wish her good luck, which he needed the most. Exams were over in the blink of an eye and then it was the time to go home. They were then four hundred kilometers apart but distance did not bother them as they knew that they would not face any trouble, moreover they were not that much close at that point of time.

Facebook helped a lot to bridge the gap between them; they used to chat for hours, which couldn’t even be counted. They had gone gaga over each other. Sometimes Pom would be angry on Susane and at times she would be angry on his anger. Pom had already developed feelings for her and had started trusting her, same was the condition of Susane but she would not express it as she already had a boy friend that had got no time for her, she was a victim of distance.

Pom was not ready to give up, he had never wished for anything from her. He told her, “I don’t want anything from you; I don’t want you to love me, just let me love you.” He was very serious about her; feelings were increasing exponentially day after day. They were so much attached by then that they were not ready to anything but chat with each other.

It was then time for summer training. Susane was supposed to perform the training with her boy friend and it was somehow killing him from inside but he was not able to do anything. In order to keep himself calm he used to tell himself, “I am not serious, this is temporary,” but inside he knew that he was not able to resist the feeling. Pom asked her every day about the training. Soon the training came to an end and the vacations were also going to be over soon.

Their college had organized a fair and Susane was going to perform, so he had left for college as he did not want to miss watching it. Pom had also performed and the show was all over a success story. Pom had made himself proud by winning a prize in the debate.

From then on-wards they used to meet every day during the college hours. Pom was one of the most irregular and most tardy boys, but then he had become the most punctual boy and regular too. He used to get ready as early as nine A.M. and leave for college in the next hour. Pom reached the classroom ten minutes before Susane. This kind of change is easily observed and hence it was observed by everyone.

They used to stay together for the whole day, wherever Susane went, Pom went with her like Lovely Singh. That increased the temperatures of the haters but it was under control. Then began another drama in their college, NAAC was going to come for an inspection and Pom was the first boy selected for the team that would face NAAC, and she was also selected in the team. Every day they would sit for a meeting on how to face NAAC and as a result classes were not going according to the routine. They had to come to college as they had to attend the meeting and so during the free time they used to sit in the class and chat. “Good days do not last forever,” so was the case for them, haters started spreading rumors that Pom and Susane stay in the class in order to get close. Is it a crime if a boy and a girl stay in a classroom just to talk with each other? The worst thing about that place was the mentality, people did not belong to the same place but they had strange similarities. They had come from various corners of the state and the country but people with the same thought process had formed a union.  

People started talking about them that too did not bother them. Year mates had started creating distance with them. They kept on meeting with each other and talking with each other. They used to talk for hours every day without bothering anyone but somehow everyone was bothered, what made everyone else unhappy? They could not find a clue.

Then came the day of the inspection. Everything was up to the mark, Pom had answered very nicely but once you have got haters, you can’t help. People said that he had not answered properly. A cultural event was organized for the NAAC visitors, Pom was the host of the evening and so he was held responsible for everything. Let me tell you how. After about five performances, one of the NAAC visitors called Pom and said,” Please end the show, we are very tired,” Pom said,” Ok sir.” Pom went to the madam in charge about the problem. Mam told to end the show with the best vocals of the college, but then Pom heard that Susane and group were going to perform next. He did not know anything about what had happened. After everything was over, Pom went with Susane and bid her farewell. Then he got to know that, people who could not perform had started talking. They were telling that since there was something between Pom and Susane, he had swapped their performance timings.

Pom did not like back bitching and neither did he like doing that so he went directly to those people and asked if there was any problem. He had made everything clear about his ignorance. The flow was not yet disturbed, everything was going on pretty well. He was in love and was very happy.

 Suddenly after some days he heard that his year mates had called her boy friend and had told him stories about them. That was a serious matter of concern for both of them. No matter what, he was not going to leave her. They kept on meeting each other in the college. Pom had stopped talking with those boys who had reported. Susane and Pom were not doing anything wrong, Pom used to love her and in return he was not asking for anything from her, he used to like talking with her and liked her company. They were more friends than lovers; can’t a boy and a girl be friends?

 On one sunny day, Pom was playing guitar with some friends on a ground, suddenly the phone rang, it was an unknown number, it said,” I am Susane, you come near the college, ASAP.” She was serious. Pom packed everything u, took a friend with him and cycled his way to the college. There he saw a bunch of year mates, who once used to be his friends, standing against him. That was not the concern for him, what mattered was Susane’s red eyes, her eyes were filled with tears. After seeing that he could not utter a single word, he thought that he was the only person responsible for that situation. He heard everything that her boy friend said without answering back. Pom said only one thing, “Yes, I love her,” when her boy friend had asked him. Pom had to promise Susane’s boy friend that he would never ever meet her or talk with her. He did everything so that she could remain happy without thinking about himself. He had thought that it would be easy to move on but he was wrong.

They are now in the same place, in the same class, but Pom has stopped attending the classes and she doesn't even see his face. Moreover she can’t even see his face or talk with him, otherwise reporters would report it to her boy friend and Pom doesn't want to create anymore problems for her, but it kills him from inside when he has to see her every day. Pom is now surrounded with clouds of depression with no sign of silver lining. Unknowingly Pom had stepped inside a Chakravyu; he doesn't even know what will happen next.

Cigarettes have become his companion now. Either he will get back or the smoke will lead his way to the graveyard. Still Pom says this is not the end yet, despite being isolated and stranded by his year mates. Another year follows, story has just begun.

          

  

Life Happens !

You always try to do something with your life but have you ever tried to add a meaning to your life. Life is a blank white paper, all you have to do is write something. You are the designer of your own destiny and once you get to know that you will no longer be weeping for the hardships of your life. If something wrong is happening in your life then you better be sure that whatever is happening is not a part of your design. After all the things you have tried and done, if the design does not work then no need to worry as there must be something, a surprise most probably, waiting for you to rejoice. If nothing goes well, is there any use weeping around and announcing about that, will that help? Your excellence in designing life will never be able to give you the confidence that everything will be alright. However good you are at something, you will never be able to make things the way you want to make them.

Life happens, and whatever happens, happens for a reason. Instead of weeping for the things we can't change we should try to find a reason to move on.

Gone are the GOLDEN DAYS !

February was the most dangerous month, we used to have our final exams then. Out of all the stresses, answering the question paper was the toughest job at that point of time. Tension was defined by homework and the names written in the discipline record copy by the monitors. Life had different forms of complexities even if it was so simple. We partied as soon as February was over, parties were different in those days. The best venue for party used to be the football stadium. We had no menu for the party, instead we used to play football for as long as we could. We could do anything for each other and for football. We were a clan.

We hated books but we couldn't even contain the excitement when time came to get new books and copies.The smell of the new books was something that no one could resist, covering the books and copies was the best job. Wearing the same old school dress and keds with small cracks was one hell of a style.That was the time when low-waist had started, but most of us had fat waists. Somehow we used to adjust our old trousers in such a way that it appeared to be a low-waist trouser.

That was the time when we did not know that 'change' is a very powerful ingredient of life which is abstract. Change was happening since then but we had not paid much heed to it.We were not able to grab hold of time rather we were not willing to as we were ignorant about the changes.

Today when you will recall those days, you will not cry but you will surely regret, you will surely wish to bring back those days.

One man army !

This title very widely used by the Tollywood industry, but this is not a promotional blog of any Tollywood movie. Life is a collection of phases and most of us have to experience those. You come alone and you will have to depart alone, this universal truth is known by everyone be it a kid or a teenager. You are the leader of your life and you are the only one person responsible to rule it, the ultimate goal of life is to lead it properly. To do anything properly you don't need anybody's permission or company, all you need is a bag full of determination and faith.   

Life is unpredictable, all your plans might turn out to be futile and sometimes luck might lead you towards success. More unpredictable is the human nature, when it will swap sides, you will never ever know. One thing you should be sure about human nature is that you might be back stabbed anytime, so trusting a person blindly is strictly not encouraged. People will be ready to pull you down and hold you back. 

You have to keep only one thing in mind,"when no one is ready to go, you have to go solo", this is very famous extract,"JODI TOR DAAK SUUNE KEO NAA AASE, TOBE EKLA CHOLO RE", it is a very normal to get demotivated, and people will always try to demotivate you excluding a few and those few are not always around you. Now you have to decide whether you will search for that person in the midst of the people around you or be happy with yourself and your own confidence.

Once you decide to be happy, whatever the situation be, you will be equivalent to an army. All you have to do is be happy and remain happy whatever the situation be. A smile even in the toughest of times will bring discomfort to those who pray for your loss. One thing you should never do is ask for anybody's loss or pain.

Once you are free from any kind of expectation and emotion you will no longer complain about anything and nothing will affect you. You will be the master of your thoughts and all doors will be open for you. You will not need any key to unlock any kind of lock and no one will ever try to stop you. You will have to be least bothered about what one thinks and what one does behind you. This is the key ingredient to become a ONE MAN ARMY.

Learn to let go !

 

The more you try to hold on to a thing or a person, the more you are hurt.It is very much human to get attached, but to fall prey to that attachment is foolishness. It takes moments to get attached and then takes years to get out of that attachment. Everyone is not capable enough to get out of that temptation, but one has to. Life is a wonderful blessing and you should be privileged to have this. Life is a journey where the roads are not always national highways, small paths do come, sometimes ditches too, it does not mean that you will stop the journey. You ought to have a shock absorber in order to have a safe and sound journey, and once you will learn to let go, you will not be bothered by any shocks.

Of-course life is a journey but it is not a fairy tale, where you have long hairs to help you remain young forever or where you have a very big responsibility since you were gifted with a super power. Life is the ultimate reality and to let everything go is the sign of being content.

People will ask you, why did you build an empire if you had to let it go? What would you say? The question is really tough but not unanswerable. There is something called desire, it was his desire to build an empire and he has fulfilled that and he is very much happy with his fulfillment, but desires do change with time. Now he is tired and he desires to be free from all the materialistic attachments and that is when he will let everything go. 

Everyone is not able to fulfill the dreams, that does not mean that they will stop dreaming. At that time they will have to let go the feeling of hopelessness and move on. You never have the same aspirations for a lifetime, aspirations do change from time to time otherwise life would be very much mundane. 

Learn to let go and be happy, life will become very smooth.      

Its none of anybody's business !

Whether you are successful or not, happy or not, should matter only to you and no one else. Only if you understand this will not help, you will have to teach it to others as well. If others are not worthy of the education that you intend to give them then its better not to be a dumbass . 

You will find millions of reasons to quit but you have to find that one reason to stand alone and strive towards success. Criticizing others is the official job of the jobless, it's better not to pay heed.

Find the artist inside you and hone that artist instead of concentrating on those who think themselves to be the, I know everything, type of persons.

Discipline is temporary !

 

Discipline is something which can not be spoon fed or taught, it is something which comes by itself. Discipline is reflected from the mannerisms or the manners of a person, the way a person dresses and by the way he/she talks with others. If anyone is willing to make you disciplined, he will have to do it by training you but it will not last long . 

You can be disciplined only when you make it your habit or when you make it a part of your routine. Discipline can be achieved by being strict as well but it will be of no use, that will be never lasting. It will last hardly for a day or two. Discipline achieved with the aid of strictness is like training a lion to sit. You can never force someone to be disciplined until and unless he or she is willing to be. 

Parents train their children in such a way that they seem to be disciplined and that kind of discipline is permanent which is a result of training given at home and that is something that matters.

 

Birth of crisis !

 

 The beginning of a new thing gives birth to the possibility of crisis. Wikipedia defines crisis as,' any event that is, or is expected to lead to, an unstable and dangerous situation' and so it is. You are never hundred percent sure about the outcome of any event or the efficiency of any event, only the probable results are known. Once you start working on something, ample amount of confidence is required to keep the tempo alive and kicking, lack of confidence starts the reproduction process and that unborn crisis can never be aborted.  

Crisis is a curse which has got no cure, the only precaution is to be keen enough to avoid misunderstandings which might lead to demotivation and further loss of confidence. Another way is to fight hard to leave crisis behind by fighting it and then move on. The best way to be strong is to fight with your fears and go with the flow and crisis is something which almost everyone is afraid of.

Be strong and crisis will not bother you.

Are you a leader ?

 

You have got the potential to do anything, only if you wish to. Leading a group of people is not a hard nut to crack but at times it can be even harder than a diamond. All you need is to explore your own-self in order to convert your potential into reality. Most of the times you need a source of inspiration to boost your confidence and find out the hidden You.There is plenty of inspiration around you, in case you are not able to find out or discover yourself, you might wish to search for an inspiration.

Finding the leader inside you is just the first step, many hindrances will be on the way once you finally decide to become a leader. People will start abusing, pulling your legs but you have to stay determined. Determination and hard work are the keys to become a good leader.

A leader  is not a boss, he is more like a mentor who wants to go along with his companions and does not wish to boss others. A good leader is never alone, he will surely get the support of his companions at the time of need.
 
Yes yes yes, you are a LEADER .

EVIL and LIVE !

Life and relationships are game of words and arrangement of alphabets, you just have to play it right to write a perfect story. Did you ever imagine a mirror image of the word 'EVIL' or the word 'LIVE' ? If you would have done so, you would have known this. 

Evil resides in the one who lives, this is the ultimate truth of life and no change can change this as evil will exist as long as life exists. Either you have to be extremely pessimistic to lead life or extremely optimistic to do the same but you can not be in the midst of the two.

"Live life king size", you have known this phrase for many decades but have you really tried to increase the size or the range of your life, as soon as you begin the process of expansion something evil will come and stop you. Where you will try to live, evil will suck the hell out of you. You are a package of both LIVE and EVIL.

Just live and let others' live and let evil do it's job, it will not be able to do much if much heed is not given to it.

Mind is empty!

Every human being has to face a situation in which he goes through a state of emptiness rather he is in a state of limbo. He is not able to find out what to do and what to write and what to think. He gets so much confused that he is not able to concentrate, but in the midst of all the happenings he forgets that his brain functions the most at the time of limbo as he is able to give the maximum time to himself at that very situation and if he wishes he can work on improving and honing his skills at such times.

Poetic limbo, writer’s limbo, engineer’s limbo or any such kind of limbo can be beneficial to the self if that human being wishes to turn that into his advantage just by thinking a bit more. Thinking is the key to all kinds of success.

Just don't let any kind of block hinder the pace of your life.

Notification !

This is to notify all the readers that I am soon going to create another blog, a travel blog. Life has become monotonous and to get out of this I have decided start this.







Happy blogging !

Triangle !

Believe it or not,a triangle is one of the strongest geometrical structures. This is not about a geometrical structure or geometry or mathematics, it is about something very popular and a common phenomenon.

Have you seen "The Twilight series" or the movie "Student of the year", one thing is common and that is the love triangle. A person who is a member of a love triangle experiences both fun and stress, love and hatred, pain and gain and many such opposites. A triangular love story is just an extended part of a small love story which is filled with twists and turns and sometimes it becomes never-ending.

Sometimes the triangular love story ends before the beginning, it happens as the triangle becomes more like a bent line with three vertices, with each vertex equivalent to each member. Love stories are made every moment, every lovely eye contact marks the beginning of a beautiful love story but it is not compulsory that it has to be continued or carried to the tag line "HAPPY ENDING".

 

Necessity of excellence !

"Necessity is the mother of invention", all the inventions today are a boon of necessity, but have we invented something in the recent past which has changed or tried to change the present situation. Excellence is required in every field but it has never been made mandatory. Excellence is the desire of even the unwilling people and you do not need anybody's permission to covet for something.

Success comes after excellence, as said by Rancho baba of 3idiots, and is very much true. Excellence will bring unlimited happiness and sky will be the limit then. Nothing will be a barrier then. Smart work is the key to excellence. You should choose to work smart instead of working hard.

Can popularity be a curse ?

Your hunger for food might end someday but the hunger for popularity is never ending and that hunger brings a curse onto us. You have been on a journey since the time you have had the knowledge of addition and subtraction and one of the most important ingredient that adds flavor to that journey is the will to become famous, to become popular. You will obviously not want be the next Shah Rukh Khan or the next Sachin Tendulkar but you will have a desire to become someone big one day. This desire, if fed properly with the protein of determination, will surely turn into reality.

Becoming popular and the journey are two very different stages. You might think that after becoming popular you will no longer want anything but exactly the opposite happens. The hunger increases exponentially and slowly becomes out of control, this is the time when it becomes a curse and you no longer want to be popular.

 

High Time it is !

 I have tried a lot of things to bring to light all those matters which people prefer not to discuss or pay heed to but I think I have failed  as everyone is busy, no one have got time to ponder upon those things as it is just impossible to be away from those things. I am not Bapu or a member of the Avengers that I will take a stand and save earth and the mankind from a very big disaster. 

It is now high time. While I was traveling I observed one thing and that was, most of the couple is middle aged now and is having a kid. In most cases both husband and wife are employed and are regular users of smart-phones and hence are very well familiar with internet. So we are no more orthodox, we have to just improve and mend ourselves. Today youth has got the power and once the youth decides anything, that thing is ought to be done.  Most part is done; we have to just take care of the moral science now and then people will no more want to go to the heavens.  

Mahatma had always urged the people to be the change they want to see and so do I urge all the runners of this world to be the change they wish to see and make this world a better place to survive, otherwise survival is not going to be easy. No-one is a true fortune teller or a soothsayer but the present scenario indicates what is going to happen in the coming future.