Content!

We all have been planning, doing things as per the plan or design created in the mind every single day.Waking up, getting ready, off to office and doing the same chores and back to the burrow. The cycle goes on. In the midst of all these activities, few Instagram (or Facebook or whichever media it is) posts just to make sure that life is normal. An asylum has been built in which we are getting locked down and we are ignorant about that.

The world has become such a place where people judge you by the type or brand of clothes you are wearing or by the mobile phone which you are using. This is the same place where thousands of social media influencers or gurus have evolved who are teaching ways to lead happy lives. Are they teaching these things? Well, one more thing, I have not come across a single online guru who is either poor or middle class. Are they teaching ways to lead happy lives or are they actually teaching methods to become rich?

Well, if you have to judge a person, if prejudice is priority then judge by the virtues of sense of humor,intelligence, behavior and there are many more. Why these? Well, you can not find those in the super markets!

Is anyone really content? Today you buy a new iphone or the new trend in India which is one plus, you will be the happiest person for few days. Suddenly after 6 months a new model will be launched with better features and looks, will be content anymore? Life is all about changes and add-ons and accessories. The more you want them, the less content you will be.

In search of motivation!

I have always written blogs assuming that people go through the same things that I go through, but that can not always be true. Everyone has a story to tell and in no way possible those stories can not be same. Honestly, I am not the smartest person nor I am as smart as I pretend to be. There are times when I am completely lost and I try everything to find a way out. This feeling of getting drowned in a stream of unknown is the most haunting one and no one wishes to be there. Well, I have been there and I have survived a lot of times but still I have not managed to find a way to avoid getting into that spot again.

I have been working for more than two years now, I have not been doing what I was meant to do as far as my degree is concerned but I have been working and as a result I have chosen a lifestyle for me. I have become independent and somewhat supportive too, for my mother. Every now and then when I feel like quitting, only one thought stops me from doing that, "what about my freedom and what about my mother?" What about her? Will she approve of that or will she support? I do not know and I do not have the courage to face that situation too.

Now, why do I feel like that? Do you believe that whatever you are doing and wherever you are, you belong right there? If so then that is the best life one can have. I do not feel the same for me, I feel like something else is meant for me and the most disappointing feeling is that I do not know what is that. I am working on this, will definitely inform as soon as I DISCOVER what is meant for me.

If you feel the same then this 'I' is you and you should try to find and discover the same.

Procrastination!

Life is a combination of all the odds that you have ever heard of, ups and downs, highs and lows, losses and gains. However, sometimes life is more than just a combination of feelings and experiences, you might realize it late but when you do you find out that life has been an oxymoron of a kind and the more you try to undo that the harder to fail at that. Finally when you reach a point that you are confident that your understanding of life is absolutely correct you start procrastinating and you start waiting for the right time to come. Why not start now and wait for the outcome?

You are afraid now, after seeing everything and everyone around you, you are now afraid to take anymore risks. When you start procrastinating, you get more time to contemplate. Contemplation is good but if you keep on doing that for the same thing then you start twisting things to such an extent that those start to look ugly and you keep them behind.

Life is too small to think about taking risks, you are no king that you would be dethroned. Just go with the flow, say sorry when you have to, laugh always. If you are stuck somewhere, you will definitely find a way-out. Traffic does not stop forever. I have decided too commit more mistakes, learn from them, it is not the time to settle down. Water, when it settles down, either it gets polluted or it dries off with time, I choose to flow.