How can you choose the right path ??????????????

Just imagine yourself in a situation when you have got four paths, rather options before you and you have got loads of time to linger. Will you waste all the time or will you wait for a silver-lining to help you out ? If you are lucky enough then God might send you his messenger to help you but it is no fairy tale my dear friend. If you are expecting that suddenly sun will dawn upon the right street, most probably you are good at animation then. How can one be so pessimistic? You might be thinking that, but I am not being a pessimist, I am just a realist. You have to blindly believe your confidence and step forward and in case it becomes too difficult to choose then no need to follow any of the paths, just make you own way and let others follow it. The world will discourage you, will even try to stop you but you can't be stranded by them.
 

Whom to trust and whom not to ?????????????????

Trust is the most important factor as far as a relationship is concerned, be it any form of relationship. Trust comes from heart but as soon as the mind starts playing its role, everything gradually becomes vague. One should always keep in mind that there is always more than one aspect in an event, the doer’s aspect and the spectator’s aspect; it might sometimes match while it might clash too. When you start thinking from your heart you become blind but it does not mean that you will always be right when you are using your brain. Building trust takes years but to eliminate trust for someone it takes a moment, beware to use the right medium (brain or heart) at the right time. Now as far as the question is concerned, mistakes are made by humans only, so you will be learning it gradually. It does not give you the liberty to commit the same mistakes again……………… Always try to choose the right person for you…….. may you be blessed with that quality

Life is stagnant and has been stagnant !!!!!!!!!!!!

Life has been stagnant for everyone and for those who think that it is not, it is slowly becoming so. You can see it around you, people are happy in playing 29 for whole day and night and laughing at don't know what, all kinda unnecessary addas, for those who don't know cards they are busy playing counter strike and those who are not indoor sports friendly, they are busy with their so called girl friends. Is this the life you are dreaming to lead, what about "live life king size". All talks and no action, lights and camera are too far. Getting enlightened after watching a bengali art film and then again that spark vanishes, what is happening to this country and its people. Yes, where work is needed progress is made but in some places where people want to progress, why is progress not happening. If you don't want to progress or move on then better you don't stop others to do their thing.......................

What should be your reaction when you are pissed off ???????

People will always be around you too piss you off willingly or unwillingly, how should you answer back? Should you waste your precious time to answer them or should you not care? Well it completely depends on the situations and once you are able to judge the situations and come out of the bars of immaturity, you will find the answer yourself. Most of the times you don't have to waste your time thinking about what others are saying, you just have to do your thing in your own way and aim for success. People will be forced to shut up and your time will also be saved.

Moving on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have learnt something from Lord Buddha and that is to renounce, I don't desire to be a priest but I don't want to keep any attachments too. It decreases hell lot of load from your mind and soul, ultimately you have to be capable enough to fulfill the birth responsibilities then you have to search for other responsibilities. By the birth responsibilities I mean taking care of your own parents and then look for someone else. I am not heir to any throne so that I have to have someone to increase the gene strands and make children. I choose to be alone and do something for the world. I am not encouraging others to do the same as if everyone will follow this then, a place which is highly populated now will slowly become vulnerable and then finally extinct. Marriage is one of the most important sections of life but it is just a section, we should not forget that. Why suddenly marriage? It is obvious to ask this question, but have you ever asked yourself this question. You will find this to be the most appropriate answer. We have to learn to stand on our own feet.
After all of this if I define RENOUNCE, it is to give up everything, untie every knot. I can't untie the knot with my parents as they are my creators. I am not becoming a sage but I am diversifying for making the better out of myself.



                                                

If there would be 48 hours in a day !!!!!!!!!!

Surprised by the question aren't you but just imagine what would happen if there would have been 48 hours every day? Now thinking will start varying from person to person, a lazy person will think in a very lazy and excited manner as he will get more time to sleep, an office going person will get irritated as he will have to work for longer shifts but the worst reaction will be of the students as they really hate classes.
Keeping the routines apart, life will get shorter. People will live for shorter years and days, they will start valuing time and life ,as they will realize that they have got lesser number of years in their life's account. Calendars will show the same dates and years. I would live each day like it is the last one, we should do it now also but we don't do it as we don't get a lesson until and unless we are victims of something or the other. Everyone will try to enjoy their lives..........................................................

What is success??????????????

Success, if the word is broken it becomes suck and sesh(bengali word for over and hindi word for it's still there), it is something which you suck and then either it is finally over or it has just begun. It is up-to you who has to decide whether you want to take rest or you want to continue the ride of success. The taste of success is very sweet and once you taste it, you get addicted and you really want to get addicted to such a thing. Successful is not being rich but being a person who has got the potential to change everything around him. Success is a driving force which gives you the strength to do anything you want to do, just don't be bothered about what others are telling and follow your heart and do the thing.

What if I would be in a bigger place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This relates to someone who thinks that he deserves more and deserves a better place to stay and what goes on in his mind all the time........

I f I would be in a larger place and a better place then I would lead a much better life and a much satisfied one but sometimes when I think too much I realise that I have learnt alot of things only because I was cursed to stay in a rustic place like this one. I have learnt to judge people and I have understood that no-one will stand for you until and unless they have something to do with it. The most important thing that I have learnt is how to become very famous and then lose all the fame at once. You learn just one thing that you are the one and the only person to make yourself happy and sad by the choices you are making and the promises you are breaking.

Internship turned out to be a nightmare !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Internship turned out to be a nightmare !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like every other engineer I too wanted to be a part of an internship program but my plans were different. I wanted to experience which is not a part of my field, I wanted to do something new and productive, I have a concept, might be a misconception that after completion of 2^nd year of B.tech. you are not ready to be an active part of a construction project or anything like that which will use civil engineers. This concept helped me move in my direction, I was told by many people not to take this step on the other hand many had encouraged as I was going to earn on my own.

Everything began in a very dramatic manner, I still miss that pumping adrenaline in me. A friend and I decided to leave for an interview just after our sem

ester exams were over and much to our disappointment we could not give the interviews as it was a Saturday. Our confidence was broken and all our plans were on the verge of extinction. My friend left for his training and I was unaware about that, he had told me that he was going for a holiday trip to the hills. I don’t like to be mundane rather I try to make things as interesting as possible so to break the boringness that had stuck my life I decided to give my plan another go. Without any further arguments and questions I left for Kolkata that night, never had I left for a place with such energy and passion for what is was supposed to do. I have not yet disclosed my plan, I was supposed to work in an international bpo, I found out numbers of various bpo’s from google and randomly started dialing and so I came through this bpo. As I entered the office I was just amazed, I could not believe my eyes, the office was so big. I had seen such office only in movies. I participated in the interview and I was just amazing, I am not trying to exaggerate. I had faced three rounds of interviews and all were just amazing.

The first step was completed very easily and I was very happy that the first interview of my life went so very well, but I was not going to make this as my career, I was just trying to be an intern over there and learn something new for which I was going to get paid, it was supposed to be fun because never had I earned 10k, it was my first opportunity. The next hurdle was to find a place to stay and on the verge of finding out rooms I came across many people, that was one hell of an experience. I realized that you can not expect help from those people whom you think are your friends, all my hopes were shattered when friend said on my face that I had to pay to stay at his place, all I had asked was for a place to stay for only a day or two, I got a reply “you have to pay 5k per month if you are willing to stay here”. That option was shut down. Again google came to my rescue, I found out rooms at dumdum at a relatively lower price. Without much querries I packed my bags and shifted to that place.

I began my training at the office thinking that everything will go well for the coming few months and so it was. I made few friends at the office and was really enjoying my stay in kolkata and was enjoying the training hours, it was really fun. We decided to mass bunk and so we did. I went home that Saturday and when I came back on the next Monday everything had changed. That day when I left for the training something happened which was really not supposed to happen. Our trainer scolded us that day and that was the main reason of all that was going to happen. That evening three people left the team and the next day two more people did not show up. All my plans were getting shattered. The company thought that we will also not continue so they tried to attract us by exciting offers and we planned to stay there until we get the first salary. We began working as we  planned.

We hit the floor and started calling for UK after 8 days of training. The real show seemed to be really tough, we were just playing in the nets so far but the real game was going to be very tough. I was performing well, we were 5 people who had started calling. After few days 3 people left and only two were left, 2 from 11, it was a great figure. They had promised to pay us on the first of the month but they did not pay and many other promises were broken. This was not all, the owner of the pg started to demand money every next day and that was really problematic. I was unable to take all the pressure and things were going from bad to worse.

Finally I decided not to work anymore after I get the first salary but that day never came. I left the pg where I was staying. I came back home and then again left for collecting my salary but unfortunately I did not get the salary as well.

The tried to call me and attract me but I was not going to fall prey to their trap again.

I gained a lot of experience but had faced a lot of loss.

I suggest people to learn how to judge people and not to go by the way they are talking to you because as I usually say “People are hypocrites”. People are sitting idle to cheat you so please try to think ten times before making a decision.

LIC ............................. choose the full form.............

 After this LIC comes to the rescue..................... instead of being sorry or being sad people start searching for money.......................

 Life insurance corporation or Life insulting corporation ................................

I am not against the company neither the company has got anything to do with me. The company has got good policies which turn out to be beneficial in the future but these benefits destroy human emotions. People normally sign in for such policies for having a secure future but if one does not live to see the future and cherish the bright future, what's the benefit all about? Can anyone answer?

For decades a person keeps on investing on his policies, he doesn't even know that he has been investing for the rituals of his death or after his death.A person suddenly dies and his soul thinks that his well wishers would be crying for him in grief but sadly it doesn't happen. All the well wishers after two days start thinking about the refunds from the policies. Suddenly the grief stricken home turns out into a home filled with people talking about money.

Thanks to LIC and other companies like LIC.............................

How people change colours ????????????????????

As long as you do good for people and you make them happy they are with you, or as long as their work is done they are with you but as soon as they will realize that you are no longer of any use they will start changing colours and sides. This is very common, it can be seen in case of Indian politics specially in the case of West Bengal politics where people used too support some other party but as soon as the opposition came into power everyone started hovering around the one in power. This happens, this is life..............