You will get the most common conclusions and solutions here. I am not a Guru or someone special but I do find myself most of the times in situations where my judgement becomes universal.
What are you from inside?
It is really hard to know yourself when there are so many things you are up to. You do not get the opportunity to discover yourself when you indulge yourself into so many activities and if you don't indulge you will not be able to find out what you are actually capable of doing. Either way you are into a big trouble, the largeness of the trouble will be known by the amount of time you are spending on thinking about it. The best part is if you start indulging yourselves into various activities, you will lose time, but you will get to know your abilities. What you are actually from inside can't be reflected outside as the ones who are seeing you, don't have the same level of maturity.